I met a young lady recently came to me for counseling, she expressed her dissatisfaction concerning her suitors, that they are not meeting up to her expectations and that she needed prayers.
I asked her a simple question... How many books have you read on marriage...
To my greatest surprise.... She stammered... None... 😮😮😮🤐
It's really so disheartening that we spend so many years training for a career....
Come to think of it...People spend years in the university ooooo preparing for a career, they will end up retiring from And spend so little time preparing for marriage that is a life time.
Oya, let's analyze it.
To be become a doctor,
How many years did you spend...
How many books did you read...
Mention other career path, you have to give quality years of acquiring knowledge.
But When it comes to Marriage,
You just jump into it, without no books read marriage seminars / conferences attended, spending quality time to well equipped and prepared.
You can't have an extraordinary marriage with little or no preparation.
Learn from the Ant, they store up their food during the summer, getting ready for winter. Proverb 6:8
Be prepared before marriage comes knocking on the door.
Entering into marriage with a high expectations and low preparation is a big disaster.
How prepared are you...
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